The Secret of Contentment

The context behind this passage in Philippians 4 is that the Philippian church is poor – and yet generous beyond their means. They delight in providing for Paul – in spite of his objections!

Indeed, one could say that they have figured out the implications of what Paul taught on giving: if Paul gains “honor” by preaching for free, then they gain honor by supporting his preaching!

And so there is something of a friendly battle of honor going on here! Paul wants the honor of preaching without charge. The Philippians want the honor of supporting his preaching. Paul is grateful for the support they give – and delights to honor them for it – but at the same time, he does not want to encourage them in this!

Some of you may have experienced this in dealing with honor-based cultures. In some countries, if you say to your host, “what a nice picture!” The following day you may find it on your doorstep. Especially if you are someone important to them (someone they honor), then if you even hint that you like something, they will make it happen – even if they can't afford it.

Paul understands that culture of honor – and so he has to figure out how to thank the Philippians for their gift without creating a sense of further obligation!