Psalm 128 Dictator or example

What should the Head of the family be like? Does headship mean tyranny or dictatorship? What is the biblical way to rule the house in love and reality. What should the wife be like? What should the children be like? Much of what the psalmist says would be considered Politically incorrect by our society. What should a Christian family be like? This psalm is straight forward and simple & gives basic sensible answers that are needed by families.