Kindness and Truth

How does the LORD make one willing against their will with irresistible Sovereign Grace? Should we also be kind and gracious as the LORD was to us? Why was David careful to seek the LORD to choose the right city to dwell in? How were David’s wives a picture of the church? How was Hebron a picture of Christ as a refuge for sinners? How are we to be mindful that the LORD has been kind to sinners such as we are and to be the same to those who can’t see the Truth?