Ephesians 5:25-33

Christ's love for the church is the model for how men are to love their wives. 'It's not here is another person that I am to manifest love to'. No.....She is a part of me. We do lose our individuality in the marriage relationship. That is God's plan. We are one. she is part of me. When I am loving her, I am loving myself. I cannot love her too much.