Welcome One Another

We are good at putting up with each other. You can ignore someone and that can be “bearing with their weaknesses”!
But what does it mean that we bear their weaknesses?
We who are “able” are supposed to do two things: we are to bear the weaknesses of the “unable”, and we are not to please ourselves.
They are juxtaposed in such a way as to make them polar opposites.
If you are bearing the weaknesses of others, then you are not pleasing yourself. If you are pleasing yourself, then you are not bearing the weaknesses of others.
Okay – so how do you bear the weaknesses of the “unable”?