How to Listen to Debates Without Sinning

Debates listened to or engaged in practically always include much sinning, or at least much temptation to manifold sinning. You probably do not know much about young Elihu, one of the persons featured in the book of Job. He talks for five voluminous chapters in a very prominent wisdom book. Debates are going to most likely abound for the rest of your life. Might you not do well to learn how to debate and listen to debates without sinning?