The relationship between the pastor and the church members is a very special and important one. If it isn't right the church isn't going to succeed, and there will far reaching consequences in the lives of the members and their families. It is like all other human relationships that are important in that it should be permanent and not temporary. It should be based on love, just as these other relationships, and not simply on laws and duty. If the church is going to be able to fulfill its mission and purpose the pastor must truly love the people, the people must truly love the pastor, and the people must truly love one another. What is done must be done in the spirit of love and cooperation and not strife or selfishness.